10 Terrific Family Devotionals

On a recent live hangout we did with Rachael and Davis Carmen of Apologia, Fletch mentioned that he hasn't always been a dad who really gets deep into Scripture with our kids, or who has been consistent with family devotions. I love that he was transparent with this, because there are valid and tangible factors that play into that, as I'm sure there are for a lot of dads who work outside the home.   

Family devotions can and should look different for every family. Your dynamics are different than ours, and God delights in how creative He is with each of us. There's no one-size-fits-all here. 

Keeping that in mind, here are 10 family devotionals that we have loved over the years. Sometimes we read them all together after dinner, sometimes Kendra reads them to the kids after breakfast, and often, not every one of us is around to hear what's being read. God works with that, and we're never left lacking. 

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The Jesus Storybook Bible, Sally Lloyd-Jones - Great for younger kids, The Jesus Storybook Bible puts Jesus at the center of every major Biblical event. The readings are just the right length for sleepy kids who can't grasp a whole lot of depth but who can fully understand that the only real Bible hero is Jesus.

Thoughts to Make Your Heart Sing, Sally Lloyd-Jones - Short and easy, these daily devotions by Sally Lloyd-Jones often had me teary. I would take pictures of the text and send them to friends who needed to be reminded of the gospel, and though written for a younger age group, I reminded my junior higher that she could get a lot out of them if she were willing to tune in.

Long Story Short, Marty Machowski - Written for a variety of ages (junior high and down, I think), Long Story Short is also a gospel-centered devotional that will remind us all that Jesus is the redeemer from Genesis to Revelation.

Old Story New, Marty Machowski 

Exploring Grace Together, Jessica Thompson - Jessica Thompson has been a guest on the podcast before, and we love how she reminds us all that as parents, we desperately need redemption, too. Exploring Grace Together is great for a K-6 crowd, and tells stories that mirror the circumstances they may be dealing with themselves.

Grapevine Studies- Draw your way through the Bible using stick figures! Grapevine Studies have been a good all-ages devotional for our family, and everyone has their own style when it comes to illustrating the passages we're reading from.

Practical Happiness: A Young Man’s Guide to a Contented Life, Bob Schultz - Not just for boys, Practical Happiness is an excellent book covering topics that both kids and adults can relate to. We found ourselves in rich discussions after each chapter.

Draw To Learn the Book of Proverbs - The Notgrass Company publishes several books with the title "Draw to Learn . . .", and all of our kids loved these. A verse is presented with instructions on how to illustrate it. Really fun to see each child's creativity.

Grandpa’s Box: Retelling the Biblical Story of Redemption, Starr Meade - Grandpa's Box contains treasures that illustrate Biblical truths. The story and themes kept our elementary kids' attention very well.

A Year With Your Children in the Bible, Jim Cromarty - Now out of print, you can find a used copy for a great price. Spend a year in the Bible with your kids; you won't regret it!


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Our Top 7 Books of 2014

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Books that inspired us, made us laugh, made us think, showed us a bit more about God, and engaged our children, here on our list of top seven books we read in 2014. Fletch has openly admitted that he's not much of a reader, so the list is Kendra-heavy. But if we had a top ten podcasts list? Fletch's list would be the whole post!

Fletch

Live in Wonder is a book that will help you engage in the art of conversation, with your family, your friends, your co-workers. 
Live in Wonder Journal accompanies the book in a thoughtful way.

Kendra

New Morning Mercies is Paul Tripp's new devotional, and it has been a wonderful treat for me. I recently wrote about it on the Preschoolers and Peace site: My Favorite Devotional of 2014 (and It's Not Just For Moms).

Wonder - Our daughters and I started this one when we knew we'd be in the car a lot this fall. A boy born with a severe facial deformity, a loving family that seeks to protect and defend him, and a world that tries to come to terms with a different definition of "normal". The girls are 15, 13, and 11, while I am 44, and we all were deeply touched by Wonder.

Say Goodbye to Survival Mode is Crystal Paine's (Money Saving Mom) treatise on getting control of the life that's making you feel as if you're drowning. Even though I'm already an organized person who loves to chase balance, I found nuggets in Crystal's book that helped me pinpoint the most important ways to spend my time and shave off what needed to go. 
 
Miss Buncle's Book - What happens when the most unlikely person to write a book about the whole town writes a book about the whole town, and it becomes a bestseller? Written in the 1920's, Miss Buncle's Book was nothing but a pleasure to read. 

My Escape From the Auto de Fe - I've read literally hundreds of chapter books aloud to our kids over the past 20 years or so, and I'm always looking for interesting, engaging historical fiction that stands the test of time. My Escape From the Auto de Fe was a new title for us, and it quickly rose to the top of the list of really great titles to read aloud. The Spanish Inquisition, Christians escaping, and plenty of adventure!

The Dead in Their Vaulted Arches is the 6th book in a series of murder mysteries set in 1950's England. The heroine is a spunky 11-year-old girl who loves chemistry, her father, and their dilapidated English manor home. If you want to start at the beginning of the series, pick up a copy of The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie.

David and Goliath - I'm a big Malcolm Gladwell fan, and was particularly interested in his newest title, David and Goliath. Are underdogs really behind the 8-ball, or is there something working in their favor when what seems like the impossible comes true?

So, that was actually 9 ;)

What are your favorite books of 2014? 


5 For Friday: Homeschool Organization 101

From around the web, here are five articles and blog posts that accompany our latest episode, I Love Homeschooling But I'm Totally Disorganized. We think you'll find them very encouraging this weekend:


Help for the Unorganized Homeschooler - Marianne Sunderland

"Because who needs to hear how awesome we homeschool bloggers are without also hearing how we fall?" We love Marianne's transparency and very helpful post!

Super Homeschool Mom Fallacies: Organized - Shannen Espelien

Shannen's approach to homeschool organization is realistic and personal. Can you find your keys when you need them? Then you've got an organizational system in place that works for you. Can you improve in some areas? Of course, as can all of us, but keeping up unrealistic standards based on the things we perceive to be going on in someone else's home is not healthy for anyone. Take heart, disorganized homeschooler! 


100 Thoughtful Ways to Organize Your Homeschool Materials - Sara Dennis

100 ways? Yes! 100 ways! In a list compiled to give us lots and lots of ideas, surely we can each find one to implement that might just save the day!


Incremental Approach to Catching Up - or - How Copperswife Digs Herself Out of a Hole - Cheryl Linebarger (Copperswife)

Catch your breath, catch up, take a break, get ahead. Cheryl of Copperswife does a great job showing us how she takes a bite-sized approach to getting things done.


5 Essential Ideas for Homeschool Organization - Kendra Fletcher

Where to begin? Start by making a list of your top five non-negotiable activities and then go from there.



5 Essential Ideas for Homeschool Organization

Is this the season to get organized? We're tackling homeschool organization on the newest podcast episode in the I Love Homeschooling But . . . series: I Love Homeschooling But I'm Totally Disorganized.

But what if you're starting from square one? What if you don't even know where to begin? I get this. Even though I consider myself sort of naturally organized, I'm very familiar with the feeling of being stymied. Of sitting in the middle of the laundry piles, the dishes, the school books, the toys, and wondering, where do I even start?

Start with 5 essential ideas, but not my ideas, yours. 

Figure out what your "Rock List" should be. Remember that old Sunday School illustration where you fill a jar with sand (all of the non-essential activities of life), then try to fit in the rocks (all of the essential activities)?  The rocks don't fit that way.  But if you reverse the order - rocks, then sand - everything fits just perfectly.

Sit down with pen and paper and write down the essential activities that have to be done daily.  I made a massive list of items that I had on my plate, big and small, and then began to put each item into the "Rock" column or the "Sand" column.  While this was a helpful exercise that saved my dwindling sanity, everything was about to come crashing down and demand redefinition . . .

I had a miscarriage. I was pregnant two months later.  I had a baby.  I was pregnant five months later.  I had that baby.  I was in the PICU with him seven weeks later.  And the Rock List suddenly became a burden.

That's when I trimmed the rock list down to just five: feed kids, run laundry, educate kids, love husband, nurture my spiritual life.

Did toilets have to be cleaned? Yep. But not every day, and that was certainly a job anyone over a certain age could learn to do so I could take it off my plate. Run errands? Yep. But again, not every day.

Can you define your top five non-negotiable activities? Your top five non-negotiables don't have to be anything like mine; they should be between you and the Lord. That's the beauty of living in the freedom of Jesus!


Make Holiday Food Prep Stress-Free

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Make Holiday Food Prep Stress-Free

Some of us love to cook, but others of us feel the extra pressure that holiday entertaining and food seem to put on all the adults. Didn't Christmas seem much more fun when you were a kid and just showed up at the meal table?

Make it easy. If gourmet is your thing and it brings you joy, do that. If you need people to pitch in, call a potluck. If you need to order in, be free to do that, too! When the Mexican families in our area offer homemade tamales for sale around the holidays, I'm the first in line.

Get a leg up. It's not too late to assemble a couple of casseroles or slow cooker meals that can be popped into the oven when the day allows you absolutely no time to get a meal out there. I've got a freezer meal Pinterest board just for that.

Stock the pantry. I just knew that my teen and tween daughters would need to take food to some event this month, and the last minute scramble makes me sweat. This year I got smart (it's about time!) and bought the makings of a couple of easy treats that they can make a take: Rice Krispie Squares, Chocolate Raspberry Cake, Cheesy Dip and crackers. 

We're all wrapped up for this week's series on making Christmas memories stress-free, but we'll be back on Monday with our latest podcast: Episode 32: I Love Homeschooling But I'm Totally Disorganized. Sign up for our free newsletter below and you'll get the podcast delivered to your inbox!



5 Days of Making Christmas Memories, Stress-Free! - Day 4

Stress-Free Christmas Gift Giving

To make the whole process of gift giving a little less stressful, you might need to look at gifts with a new eye.

One year I set up a card table in our bedroom and diligently set to work wrapping presents every night for four nights. At the end of that marathon, I calculated that I'd spent a total of 16 hours wrapping gifts for our 8 kids and assorted family members and friends. 16 HOURS! 

That was the year we ended the assortment of Christmas gifts for our kids. Instead, we now give them each an "experience" - tickets to a concert, a road trip, Disneyland passes, etc. I fill a stocking for each with items I've collected throughout the years and then they get an envelope with an announcement of their gift experience inside. And peace returned to my December evenings.

I'm getting a little smarter about gifts for our extended family and friends, too. If I'm knitting beanies for a couple of college guys, I'm knitting beanies for all the college guys. Last year my brother's family got San Francisco Giants hats I'd knit, and after another World Series season, you can bet those beanies were put to good use.

More Ideas For Stress-Free Gift Giving

  • Give the kids a group gift: a stack of board games, a Wii, a basketball hoop.
  • Eliminate the part of gift-giving that stresses you out: hire a kid to wrap, order online, have it shipped.
  • Let the kids draw names, especially if there are a lot of them or they are older. 

Coming up tomorrow: Stress-Free Christmas Food

Day 3: Christmas Movies For Stress-Free Family Nights

Day 2: Christmas Books For Stress-Free Moments

Day 1: Golden Rules of Making Stress-Free Christmas Memories

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Christmas Movies for Stress-Free Family Nights

Christmas Movies for Stress-Free Family Nights

Pinterest mostly inspires me, but often the posts there overwhelm me instead. A couple of years ago I saw a pin boasting a recipe for "Grinch Punch" and I thought, "Aha!" My kids would love it! So I picked a December date that wasn't already taken and told the kids we were having a Grinch dinner. 

We served "roast beast", Who Pudding (I made a corn pudding), a festive salad, and the Grinch punch. Then we watched the movie and voila! The night was a big success for not a whole lot of mom effort. 

Since that first Christmas Movie Night year, we've done an Elf night complete with snowflake decorations the kids made (believe me, I want this to be stress-free so if the kids wanted to do it, I said, "Go for it!" and sat back to watch them), and just this week we did a Home Alone night.

This is meant to be easy, fun, and stress-free, so pick a movie and do something fun to go with it, then call it good. Some years are easier going and I can plan a little more to go with the theme, other years leave me feeling overloaded so we go with simple. 

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How the Grinch Stole Christmas Ideas

-Grinch Punch

-Grinch Centerpiece - I know, I know. Not stress-free, unless you love to do beautiful floral arrangements and this would be fun for you!


-Roast Beast 

1 pkg onion soup mix 
1 roast, 3-5 pounds
1 can jellied cranberry sauce
2 T flour, not to be added until roast is cooked

Sprinkle onion soup mix on the bottom of the crock pot and place roast on top. Spread the cranberry sauce all over the roast. Cook on low for 10-12 hours, or on high for 4-6.

After roast is done, remove it from the slow cooker and slice or shred. Stir flour into juices in crock pot and turn the temperature to high. Cook and stir for 5-10 minutes, until you have a nice gravy. Spoon gravy over roast and enjoy!

-Who Pudding (Cook's Country Corn Pudding)


Elf Ideas

-This Elf party post has a lot of great ideas. Just make sure you choose the non-stressful stuff :)

-We served spaghetti (I drew the line at syrup on the pasta and just served meat sauce), French bread, salad, and lots of candy. Our kids did try the syrup on plain pasta just for fun.


Home Alone Ideas

-Most stress-free movie night to date: I picked up take-and-bake pizzas, Pepsi, and created an ice cream sundae bar. 




5 Days of Making Christmas Memories, Stress-Free! - Day 2

Christmas Books for Stress-Free Moments

What are the easiest, sweetest moments in our home? Any time I pull a book out and read aloud. It seems so simple, because it is. Never feel as if grabbing little ones, middle kids, and teens aside to read aloud is not exciting. Oh, the stories to be shared and the moments of laughter and emotion. Even our adult kids reminisce about the books we've read together.

Need some ideas for what to read this Christmas season? I've compiled a list of our favorites over the years and written several posts about Christmas reading:

Best Christmas Books for Your Collection

The Ultimate Guide to Christmas Books

Five Christmas Books That Top Our List

And do you know what else? You, too, can take a break from the stresses of the season and allow a story to change you. When was the last time you read the story of Christ's birth without assigning it to a church service or nativity play? Just enjoyed and savored each word and drawn deep breaths of the glory that is the birth of Christ? Pour that cup of coffee, curl up in a chair, and unravel the stress. That story is meant for you!

Coming up tomorrow: Christmas Movies for Stress-Free Family Nights

Day One: Golden Rules of Making Stress-Free Christmas Memories


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